One piece of good news

Malaysians have been furious over some of the decisions the Pakatan government had made in the past months. Much of this anger and frustrations have been expressed online and gone viral. Hopefully, the government has realized the need to deliver to its voters.

Despite the rage Malaysians feel and which they have openly expressed, I marvel at the restraint with which they have spoken their minds and hearts.

They haven’t taken to the streets and resorted to violence. They didn’t go on protest marches and riled up public sentiments. They expressed themselves which is their right but made sure it didn’t end up in violence.

Even if they took to the streets it is their right to protest as long as they break no laws. The fact that they didn’t shows they have become politically mature. Perhaps, they will express themselves definitely through the ballot. That may be a better way to express discontent!

Syabas, Malaysians!

It’s time for PH to start listening to its voters

I hold only one thing against the Pakatan Harapan (PH) government. It has not as yet shown itself to be sensitive to the concerns of the voters who put its representatives in government in the first place.

Commendably, it has acted swiftly to take corrupt officials to court and is taking steps to root out corruption in the government. PH ministers are also introducing good policies to raise the quality of life to match the status of a developed nation which is our goal. The nationwide water audit,  the National Fiberisation and Connectivity Plan, Felda revamp, free breakfasts to primary school children are laudable efforts and, if efficiently executed, will definitely produce results.

But, when it comes to minority interests and reforms, the PH government has demonstrated a sorry lack of sensitivity just far too many times for the voters to ignore.

It reversed its pledge on the International Convention on the Elimination of All Forms of Racial Discrimination (ICERD) and the Rome Statute of the International Criminal Court. It has yet to start the inquiry on the “enforced disappearances” of Pastor Raymond Koh and activist Amri Che Mat despite saying it would. It raised a hue and cry over the introduction of khat in schools without considering its effects on minority communities. Then, it shamelessly back-pedalled on its stand against religious speaker Zakir Naik.

In all of the above cases, the PH government showed no respect for the voters who elected its representatives. Instead, the government clearly made decisions to appease and pacify Malay voters who didn’t vote for them. It appears as if the PH  leadership is still dictated by the old, racially inciting strategies of Umno politics.

The voters who elected the PH government are politically mature, representing a significant minority of Malays, non-Malay bumiputras from Sabah and Sarawak and non-Malays. They put aside their differences and joined forces to save this nation from kleptocracy and racist and religious bigotry believing their leaders will hold true to their word in addressing their concerns. They came through for this nation by putting nation first while the Malay majority, helpless and hapless, stood by their corrupt leaders.

We know that the Malay majority must not be sidelined and we have been very accommodating of the PH leadership in its quest to draw Malays over to its side. Nearly all the government endeavours will benefit the Malay majority because they form the largest group in the B40 category, recognized as the low-income earners. All true-blue Malaysians are supportive of these efforts and do not begrudge those benefitting from them.

But, when, again and again, the interests of voters who put the PH in office are sacrificed for the voters who didn’t vote for them, our patience wears thin.

There is an urgent need now for the PH government to show it will deliver true to its manifesto to the voters who put PH leaders in power. It can no longer override voter sentiments to pacify people who didn’t vote for PH leaders and play into their game of racist and religious bigotry to get votes.

Already, some leaders are speaking out. Yesterday, Sabah’s Deputy Chief Minister Wilfred Madius Tangau urged Putrajaya “to listen to the recommendations of Sabah” with regard to developing it further. That, perhaps, is the issue. The PH government needs to listen to what its voters want and deliver.

They can’t keep sacrificing voters’ concerns for the sake of the Malay majority. PH leaders must demonstrate the will to do the right thing and reject the Opposition’s game of playing up race and religion. I believe there are numerous Malays in the Malay majority who don’t agree with the politics of race and religion. They may come around when they see the resolve of PH leaders to steer the nation towards political and economic stability and shared prosperity by veering away from the minefield of race and religious domination.

Budget 2020 — consider maintenance and pest/pet control

There are two other areas that merit Budget 2020 attention — maintenance costs and pest and pet control in municipalities.

I don’t know about other municipalities but the Subang Jaya Municipal Council has done a fairly good job under the Pakatan Harapan (PH) government in the provision of public services. Garbage collection is regular although garden refuse collection isn’t. Sometimes, we have to wait for weeks before the latter is collected!

Potholes have been covered up although covered manholes still have not been raised to level with the road surface so vehicles keep bumping on them! Bus services are available although the buses are empty except during the peak hours.

Generally, public spaces are cleaner than they were under the previous government but municipal councils can do better to show that we are truly a developed nation.

An area of great need is maintenance, a characteristic Malaysians are not particularly strong in. We love new buildings but not enough to maintain them so that they remain in good condition despite wear and tear.

Public buildings and apartments, roads, parks and community halls need to be constantly maintained to create a healthy environment. Otherwise, they are often rubbish-littered and usually crawling with squirrels, rats and stray cats and dogs.

One of the reasons for this is because public drains are not covered and have become breeding grounds for pests.

More allocations need to be made for maintenance so that public spaces are always clean and conducive for human habitation.

The other neglected problem is pet control. Dogs and cats — and especially cats! — run around freely in neighbourhoods, often leaving their poo in public spaces, especially in parks.

If you go for a walk in the park, you will have to look out for dog poo to sidestep it! Some enforcement is necessary to ensure that owners pick up their pets’ poo when they take them to public spaces.

It’s the same with cat poo. Cat owners are not well trained to keep a litter tray for the cats to poo in. There must be some regulation and enforcement to ensure owners keep cat litters so that their pets don’t poo in other people’s gardens!

These are small issues but necessary to consider as they contribute to the well-being of the neighbourhood and may even contribute to raising property values.

 

 

Consider incentives for independent senior living in Budget 2020

Budget 2020 will be tabled on Oct 11 and I have a couple of suggestions which I hope will be considered and included in some way in the Budget!

Firstly, I’m keeping my fingers crossed that the Real Property Gains Tax (RPGT) will be abolished. The rich can absorb additional costs such as the 5% RPGT but it’s a considerable loss of income for middle-class folk, and especially for retirees who have to sell their properties to finance their retirement.

The RPGT can come up to about RM20,000 depending on the difference between purchase and selling prices. That comes up to six-month expenses to those who can live on RM3,000 a month. That’s a big loss of income for retirees.

Secondly, the government needs to provide effective incentives for the building of mid-range retirement homes for able seniors as more and more of them retire. The majority of old folks homes are for the poor and those needing assisted living. But, there are hardly any for able seniors. There are a few like the Aragreens in Ara Damansara and Green Acres in Ipoh.

The Green Acres independent units are leased out with an initial deposit of RM300,000 for 15 years with additional monthly contributions. It works out to about RM1600 a month, excluding monthy contributions. It’s a manageable commitment, especially since you get a unit with kitchen and living areas, but only a couple of retirement homes with such facilities are available. There’s a need for more affordable units in every town in the country.

Massive projects like Aragreens are out of the reach of middle-class retirees as each apartment costs about RM700,000 per unit and comes with luxurious comforts. The St Vincent de Paul Society (Catholic charity organization) is currently building a retirement village (expected to be ready next year) in Taiping with individual rooms with attached bathroom and a balcony and shared lounge and kitchen space. The initial deposit is a very affordable RM60,000 for a 25-year lease.

The couple of available retirement homes for independent seniors in the Klang Valley are usually bungalows turned into rooms with attached bath and shared living and kitchen areas. Well-planned senior-friendly affordable retirement homes for independent living are sadly lacking. It’s one of the greatest needs of the senior community which is ignored.

Independant living retirement homes are common in developed nations, although, the trend these days among the more financially stable seniors is to share homes in rented facilities. According to reports I have read so far, the reason is to enjoy company in old age. That’s a good arrangement, too, if one can find suitable roommates you can live with!

Independent living retirement homes are a great need for single seniors and couples who have lost a spouse and have children who live far from home. Considerable demand for it is latent and remains a huge market that is waiting to be tapped! Suitable incentives will stimulate supply to meet an urgent need of seniors which may translate to reasonable profits to investors.

Handling the religious far right

After a couple of outbursts, the Islamists have turned quiet! They formed an Umno-PAS pact and protected that strange religious speaker Zakir Naik in the name of Islamic brotherhood and called for a boycott of non-Muslim made food.

I don’t know if they were putting nation first or their own agenda, but the government kept a cool head although many non-Muslims were hopping mad that Naik got off the hook with just a slap on the wrists.

The far right, no matter what their religion, can’t be rid off. They will always be around and rear their ugly head whenever it suits them. It’s best to keep them at arm’s length and monitor their activities to pounce on them whenever they break the law. And ignore all their ravings and rantings because that’s what it really is: unreasonable unthinking outbursts that have no place in a modern, progressive 21st century society.

But, the strategy must be to NOT take their leaders seriously. Whenever they make their ridiculous statements, counter it with beneficial ones as in the case of the boycott of non-Muslim goods. Finance Minister Lim Guan Eng very gently advised them not to make the boycott calls and the Cabinet followed with a call to “buy Malaysian” goods.

The strategy must have worked because the Islamists made a quick about turn with one NGO urging Muslims not to boycott non-Muslim goods and after that, the issue died down.

Maybe, their leaders whose vision is narrowed by 14th Century blinkers have yet to realise that their far right religious views have repercussions on the economy and if they are truly responsible for the development of the nation, they should seal their lips and stop inciting the people.

The economy is struggling to grow and incendiary statements and calls to boycott will spook the business community which will take steps to hedge their interests against any trend to restrict markets. Perhaps, that was why the Malaysian ringgit (RM) depreciated in those couple of weeks the Islamists created all that noise!

No doubt there were other factors like the US-China trade war, but the RM was hovering at 4.18/9 for a while until the Islamists opened their mouths! Then, the RM began to dip and went as low as 4.27. When the noise from the far right stopped, the RM began to recover to 4.18/9 now.

The far right leaders carry clout only because they are aware that politicians are trying to win over their supporters. Bypass this group and target the millions of Malaysians out there who appreciate the efforts to build up this nation. Free breakfasts for all Malaysian primary school children, the national fiberisation and connectivity plan, the nationwide water audit, the development of Proton and Felda revamp will benefit all Malaysian.

Malaysians need to realize that the Pakatan Harapan (PH) government is doing its best and be more patient in wanting to see tangible benefits in their hands. More and more Malays especially need to realize that the non-Malays are waiting patiently and expectantly for them to throw in their support behind PH so that jointly all can move forward and progress.

As the PH parties continue to target the non-religious far right, hopefully, more Malays will join them. Who knows, when they see their fellow Malays progressing, more far right supporters will become less far right and join the rest! Their parties will lose support and their leaders can be ignored and, at best, just tolerated.

A lesson from the Hong Kong protests for Merdeka

Money isn’t everything. Everyone knows that. In practice, however, for some people it is. Leaders who practise it to silence dissent and diversity and suppress human rights are simply oppressors. In Hong Kong, apparently, the young people who took to the streets have realised it and are speaking up — at a price.

Nearly two million people protesting. That’s about one-third the population of Hong Kong and while that may be a minority out of the 1.4 billion people in China, it is a significant minority among Hong Kong’s nearly 7.4 million people. So, the sense of dejection is quite high in Hong Kong. Yet, are their leaders hearing them?

According to news reports, the Beijing government just wants Hong Kongers to enjoy their wealth, maintain their family ties and for that, keep quiet. But, apparently, young people want more. They have perceived that a future without human rights despite wealth is oppressive and they see that better future in the democratic rights they currently enjoy but which they also see as being surreptitiously and surely whittled away by the Beijing government.

The extradition bill that triggered the protests was just a trigger. It would allow Hong Kongers to be tried in Chinese courts where they have no confidence their rights will be respected. Hence the protests and calls for maintaining the democratic freedoms as agreed upon under the one country two systems arrangement of the handover of Hong Kong to China in 1997.

That seems to be the cry of the young people and they are willing to fight for it. They wear helmets and masks to protect their identities for fear of being singled out for arrests and coping with tear gas, but they are savvy enough to hold alternative press conferences where they present their views which the mainland media doesn’t carry.

In one such video (accessible on YouTube), one of the frontliners — they call themselves such to hide the identity of the leaders who are always targetted — said they wear these helmets and masks and, in their pockets, carry their respective last testament and will! Brave young people who are willing to die for a more humane nation!

At these alternative press conferences, the frontliners reveal some of the tactics of the establishment such as the use of white terror, which is the use of fear to suppress protests. According to some sources, in Hong Kong, there are consequences if anyone is found supporting the protests or pro-democracy, as in the case of the Cathay Pacific staff who were fired after pressure from China for expressing their support for the protests.

The frontliners also revealed the use of expired tear gas, agent provocateurs and triads to create violence among the demonstrators.

Maybe the protests will die down in time, like the umbrella demonstrations of 2014. But, it may take another trigger to draw them back. If the issues remain unresolved, just one other trigger may be sufficient for an explosion everyone will regret.

These young people are willing to take the risks for their ultimate goal of democratic freedoms. Hong Kong is the third-largest financial capital of the world. It is considered a developed economy with a GDP per capita of around US$61,400 as against China’s US$16,700 (climbing).

They have wealth, yet they know that feeding the belly isn’t enough. There’s always something more to life: freedoms which allow you to choose and design your own lifestyle, preferences, religions and political and human rights all of which add to making one a full, living human being.

Leaders who don’t understand that should step down or be thrown out and let others who do take over. Leaders who insist that you are enjoying a good deal under their leadership and, therefore, just stomach the injustices for the sake of peace and the status quo and carry on, quell the human spirit, which is a terrible human crime. When the human spirit dies, one dies and what is left behind is really a shell and shadow of the real person you want to be but can’t.

The Hong Kong issues are more complicated than what is described here. I have just summarized some of the basic issues to zero in on this one point: People want more. A progressive leadership strives to accommo0date those aspirations, not suppress them or play you out of what is promised.

That is also my Merdeka message to Malaysia.

Musang King is overrated!

For the first time in my life, I ate durians more than once this season! Usually, when the durian season comes around I will buy the fruit just once. Unlike most Malaysians, I’m not durian crazy! So, I take durians with a modicum of restraint, mainly because I read somewhere many years ago that durians are high in cholesterol!

My cholesterol level is under check and this durian season I just wanted to know why Malaysians go mad over durians. There are durian fests, durian dodol, durian cakes, durian sauce and even my favourite Indian drink — the cendol — is now served with durian in it! I’m sure you must have read about the cendol seller in Melaka who sells a bowl of cendol for RM35 because he serves it with a piece of Musang King!

RM35 for a bowl of cendol which I can get in SS15 in Subang Jaya for less than RM3?! And it comes in a convenient paper cup with crushed ice and a wide-mouth straw — delicious, drinking it on a hot day! No durians in it and it doesn’t put a dent in your pocket but people love it because there is always a long line waiting to get a cup or bowl! By the way, there’s a shop in Taipan which sells durian cendol. Haven’t tried it but plan to.

The report on Musang King cendol whetted my appetite to try out that species of durian. Going by the fruit shop I discovered that there were more varieties. Musang King, 101, D24, Tracka, Black Thorn, Hor Lo, Jantung, Udang Merah, XO, D88 and the less exotic kampung durian! My goodness, I didn’t know there were so many choices!

I couldn’t try all but I decided to get some Musang King just to find out why it costs so much! You can buy durians loose and the attendants will open the fruit for you to eat there and then or pack it for you in plastic boxes. They also have already packed boxes and I went for one of the RM39 a box Musang King variety of about five pieces which the seller magnanimously reduced to RM37 (how generous) just because it was closing time.

I went home and sat down expectantly to a flavourful of the much-touted Musang King. I picked a piece from the box and took in a mouthful. Hmm… good! But what was the special taste which demanded its hefty price? Durian lovers will vehemently disagree, but I found the fruit just a tad sickly sweet! RM37 for this?

I decided then and there that I don’t need to try out all the durian types and buy only if the price is right for me. So, the next time I went to the fruit shop and saw some other type whose name I forgot but the price at RM18 seemed affordable, I tried it. It was ok, too. And, I tried D24 another time, and, that, too, was ok. Since I was only getting ok tastes from the different durians, I decided enough of durians for this season!

The best durian I’ve had in my entire life was in the last season when I bought a pre-packed box for RM17. There were only five pieces in it. I don’t know the type but when I put it in my mouth, it was sweet and creamy like ice cream! No durian this season came close to that! Not even the Musang King, which I think gets too much of unnecessary hype! The type that came a close second was the humble kampung variety when it is sweet!

So that’s the end of my durian craze! If ever I buy durians next time it will be the kampung variety recommended by the seller or any type whose price I think is right!

Khat is a non-issue, but …

I went to see the Leonardo da Vinci exhibition early this week before it ended yesterday at the National Art Gallery. It was, perhaps, the first time the art gallery had featured an exhibition by a world-class artist like da Vinci and, needless to say, it was a memorable experience.

Although the paintings were very high-quality digital reproductions of the originals, they were able to capture the artistic quality of the originals and gave people a glimpse of the master strokes of a master craftsman. The month-long exhibition featured da Vinci’s famous masterpieces like the Mona Lisa, The Last Supper and Madonna with Child and some of his writings on the flight of birds.

I enjoyed standing and gazing in the presence of truly great art. So, did the huge crowds that thronged the exhibition hall! Noticing them, I came away from it with two clear observations.

Firstly, the exhibition attracted record numbers of visitors. People of all races came to see da Vinci’s classics. They took time to read the descriptions of each painting and took selfies and pictures of the paintings! Most of the visitors were Malays and they simply enjoyed the art for art’s sake. The Christian themes of some of the paintings didn’t bother them. Many were seen taking selfies with The Last Supper and Madonna with Child and, of course, the Mona Lisa.

Apparently, despite the Christian themes of many of the paintings, these visitors didn’t see the exhibition as an attempt to “Christianize” them. The event, fortunately, was not politicised and it gave people a chance to freely witness an extraordinarily high standard of art and appreciate it without some politician making an issue of it! The result: the people got exposure to way-at-the-top art and, hopefully, some would learn from it.

So, I can’t understand why there was such a hullabaloo over the introduction of khat in public schools. It may be Islamic calligraphy but it is still art. If politicians and paranoid parochial Malaysians didn’t make an issue of it “Islamizing” pupils, it would just have been an art form worth learning about. By itself, khat is no threat to anyone.

If the critics are concerned that the fundamental issues of education are not being addressed and, instead, khat is being introduced as a piece of window-dressing and would add to the stress of pupils rather than enhance learning, that is a legitimate concern. That is a serious concern that the education ministry must address, instead, of throwing tidbits to appease some people or so it seems. But, khat, by itself does not “Islamizise”.

If it was introduced to give the education system a Malay or Muslim identity, even that is not an issue. Malays are the majority race and adding a bit of their culture into the education system wouldn’t hurt anyone.

One positive result of the protests against khat is that the six pages of text included in the teaching of Bahasa Malaysia (BM) in Year Four has been reduced to three pages and khat (now known as Jawi writing) will not be tested, and it is optional in vernacular schools where the parent-teacher associations will have a say as to how and whether it should be taught.

Perhaps, the education ministry should have given greater thought before introducing khat. Whatever new ideas are introduced must be aimed at improving the quality of education — not over-burden pupils — and thoroughly discussed with stakeholders before implementation.

If, however, the aim of introducing khat was to appease particularly the rural Malay majority in order to win their votes, even that isn’t an issue, despite the protests. If it hurts no one and can win rural Malay support to the Pakatan Harapan government while the status quo remains, it has political merit.

If, however, the introduction of khat is one of many subtle little projects being introduced that aligns to Islamization at the expense of non-Malays and non-Muslims, it is definitely cause for concern.  It appears as if some issues are being quietly pushed through for the explicit purpose of pacifying the rural Malay voters in order that they would switch sides to PH Malay parties.

There are cases of Orang Asli ancestral land that is not recognized in Perak and not retained for the Orang Asli. In Selangor, a bill to allow the unilateral conversion of a minor child by one parent under Syariah law was thwarted at the last minute. If khat is one these efforts to win Malay support which are being introduced at the expense of non-Malays and non-Muslims, then it is unacceptable. Creeping Islamization for the sake of the Malay vote at the expense of the rights of non-Muslims and non-Malays can not be tolerated. It is an old, tried and tested formula that no longer works. See what it cost the nation: corruption at all levels with the majority of the Malays still dependent on the government.

That brings me to my second observation at the da Vinci exhibition. People recognize a good thing when they see one. The people saw it was a top-grade exhibition and flocked to it. If government services reached the target groups with minimum wastage, people will see it as a “good thing” and it would be foolish not to switch to the side whose help benefits them in real, tangible ways.

There is a need to find a new way to win more Malay support and it is in good government that delivers services to the target groups. The strategy must be to strictly follow procedures in the provision of government services, eliminate the culture of the greasing of palms, and reward meritorious service and terminate deadwood.

In other words, government servants and public officials must do their job instead of politicising government services. Keep politics out of the government and work at improving delivery and quality. The benefits will reach the target groups and they will see it as a “good thing” and they will flock to that side that gives them long-term skills to earn an honest living and be self-reliant.

 

Syabas to a nationwide audit of the water industry

The best news I got recently was the plan to audit the water industry nationwide in Malaysia. Based on the data collected from the audit, the plan is to manage the water resource so that we are not always suffering from water cuts.

The operative word here is “manage”. Malaysia is one of the wettest countries in the world with an average annual rainfall of about 100 inches in Peninsular Malaysia and about 200 inches in East Malaysia (Meteorology Department figures). In addition, according to Water, Land and Natural Resources Minister Dr Xavier Jayakumar, Malaysia might have up to five trillion cubic metres of underground water.

We are water-rich, yet our taps often run dry. That can only mean that the resource is badly managed. The nationwide audit of the water industry is aimed at managing water efficiently so that we don’t run out of water in the future. In the face of climate changes, that is a daunting task, but if the ministry succeeds, Malaysia will be a model for other water-rich nations to follow.

We should manage our water so well that we can drink it off the taps! Like in Switzerland which is recognized as a country with the best quality tap water in the world. It has strict water treatment standards and superior management of its water resource. It has less rainfall than Malaysia with an average annual rainfall of about 60 inches but it has tapped into its natural springs and groundwater. The latter two water sources provide about 80% of that nation’s drinking water.

If Switzerland can do it, I think, we can, too! Hopefully, after the nationwide audit of Malaysia’s water resource, tap water will be clean, safe, fresh and drinkable! There will be no need for home water filters and such. Instead, we can serve healthy and safe drinking water to guests and tout our water as the best in the world!

There should be well-maintained public water fountains in all urban areas so that water is free and accessible to any Malaysian. Water should also be served free at all eateries. With such abundant water, we shouldn’t be paying for water! Our water bills may go up a bit but that is a small price to pay for well-managed water delivered clean and safe to our homes!

So, syabas to the Water, Land and Natural Resources Ministry for its ambitious but achievable water plan. I’ll be looking forward to the beneficial results we hope to enjoy once the water industry in Malaysia is upgraded and functioning at optimum efficiency!

What the world needs now is the bigger man

Since he has apologized, Senator Mohd Imran Abd Hamid can be forgiven for making his controversial proposal at the Dewan Negara this week for laws to protect men from women who seduce through their demeanour and clothes.

It was a ridiculous proposal and no sane man (women will dismiss it totally) will ever take it seriously, but he apologized, and, maybe, he can be redeemed even if he must face the consequences of his actions.

Men rarely apologize. Women do, quite often, wives and girlfriends will tell you that. The men do wrong and offend and hurt their women but to get an apology from them is as hard as making them see that their inability to control their urges and passions has nothing to do with women. It has everything to do with their own lack.

Somewhere in the male psyche, is this unconscious notion that their urges are God-given and can’t be changed and, therefore, they don’t need to apologize for their misdeeds, especially with regard to their needs. They are just unconsciously and naturally being men!

I have heard wives complain about how their husbands did this and that and it was very hurtful and even though they realised that their actions wounded the women, they didn’t apologize. Women are expected to understand and forgive and go on as if everything is ok now!  The perspective is yes, the men did wrong but it’s the women who must apologize. I know what it is like because it has happened to me as well!

Most women know they have no choice but to forgive or they will never be able to move on. So, they struggle with their hurt and forget, but, something in them dies every time they do that while the men rejoice that the issues are resolved.

But, the issues are not resolved. The men get away with it but the women must deal with their own pain. So, women bury the hurt deep inside until they became numb to it. But, if the men apologize, there is a chance to sort out the feelings and it helps to heal. When men (or anyone, for that matter) don’t apologize, they withhold that healing.

That’s why I say Senator Imran has a chance to change. If his apology is sincere, he will act to stop that behaviour that causes harm. I hope he changes.

The underlying reason for sexism is the belief that men as men can’t change. But, if men are willing to change, they will open themselves up and grow. They will better handle their emotions and a woman’s ways and clothes will affect them less. If these do, they would know how to handle those urges.

Notice, how big-hearted men have no issue apologizing and don’t blame women? Even if they think they did no wrong but if it has hurt the other person, they are quick to apologize. In saying those three small words, “I’m sorry” and meaning it, they make things well again.

What the world needs now is the bigger man.